Interview
QUEEN SIERRA
It all started on a night out with friends. Over talks, stories, and laughter, I discovered that one of my friends is a journalist. Intrigued by my job, I suggested they interview me. They agreed, and now we're here to talk about my journey.
I agreed to the interview as I realised it might be a great idea to connect deeper with my audience. In this interview, I will share my story, provide some insights into my background, share my attitude, vision, and some future plans.
SIERRA, PLEASE INTRODUCE YOURSELF.
I'm an independent woman who has been living on my own since I was 13. I make my own decisions without interference from my family. While I can be tough when necessary, I also have a soft heart. But it does not mean I am not strict!
SIERRA, CAN YOU SHARE YOUR STORY AND HOW YOU STARTED IN BDSM?
Sure...I had a friend who often talked about fetishes, Fetlife, and the word "kinky." I had no idea about what any of it meant and didn't dare to Google it. In 2021 my friend introduced me to one of her kinky friends, a guy from Belgium. I had no understanding of what being a slave meant, but I agreed to give it a try. On the first day we met, my friend accompanied me. Initially, our conversation was normal, but then he suddenly approached me, put a gag in my mouth, handcuffed me, and slapped my face hard. I felt deeply ashamed, especially because it happened in front of my friend, but I kept calm despite being hurt inside. This incident marked the beginning of my training.
He paid me for each session. He was sadistic, harsh and didn't hesitate to punish me, even if I was already in pain. However, he showed care after a particularly hard punishment. One day, he invited me to his condo and handed me all his BDSM tools to store at my house. He told me, "Take these tools and equipment! You are ready to be a Domme."
As I carried the bag on my way home, I wondered where to start and what I should do now. This led me to start Googling the various implements, their applications and eventually discover more BDSM websites like Fetlife. I created a profile there, uploaded my photos, and that's how my journey in the BDSM community began.
AS YOU WERE A SUB BEFORE, ARE YOU A SWITCH NOW?
In personal relationships, I do not bring my Domme side to a personal relationship. When it comes to life decisions, I love feeling protected and backed up by my man. However, in BDSM I am a Domme and I never switch.